My father used to tell me tales of growing up on a farm with his four brothers and two sisters, but I always had a difficult time really believing that he had ever been a child. Mom and Dad had always been adults, as far as I knew, and I just couldn’t imagine them playing in the yard or swimming or going to school. It was impossible to believe that they ever had ever been disobedient children! But once they were children, and once upon a time, my grandparents were parents! What an unbelievable mystery this seemed to be to me!
Will Ferrell, who played race car driver Ricky Bobby in the movie Talladega Nights, refused to imagine Jesus as anything but an infant! At mealtime, he would pray, “Dear 8 pounds 6 ounces baby Jesus, new born, not even spoken a word yet…” That was the Jesus Ricky Bobby could love. In our churches, we quickly put away our mangers and Chrismon Trees, and before we know it, we are talking again about the cross and Jesus’ death. If we are not careful, we carry Jesus too quickly from manger to cross, not pausing to imagine what it was like for the Son of God to be a child of Joseph and Mary. In their hurry to get to the cross of salvation, some churches gloss over the important things that Jesus had to say, as if His death is all that matters. But in the words of that song by Jimmie Rodgers, “Once he was a child, a beautiful child, a child of clay, shaped and molded into what he is today.”
The Gospel writers were not very interested in Jesus’ childhood, and that is our loss. Two of them told their Gospel narratives without even mentioning Jesus’ birth. Therefore, if we are to learn anything about Jesus’ childhood, we really have to read between the lines and use our imaginations. But we also have to use our imaginations in our attempts to understand Almighty God, don’t we? God is just too great for us to comprehend with our finite minds, and so we turn to symbolic language to help us understand. We use the symbol “Father” for God because God’s care for us is parental in nature. We are God’s children, not His pets or His zoo. God’s attributes – all-powerful, all-knowing, all-present, eternal, without beginning or end – that takes some imagination to understand! Perhaps there was nothing all that remarkable about Jesus’ childhood, and perhaps Luke intended us to use our imaginations in picturing the youthful Jesus as just another of the boys who grew up in First Century Palestine.
Like all other children, Jesus had to learn to sit up, to stand, to walk, and to talk. Like all of us, Jesus spent several years in diapers – before disposable diapers had been invented! He had to learn reading, writing, and ‘rithmetic. He learned a skilled trade, carpentry. He had to learn the importance of obeying His parents, and the scripture says that He learned obedience through suffering. Can you envision this, that the eternal Word of God, the preexistent son who spoke the world into existence, poured Himself into infant flesh that could not talk at all, and that the One who spoke the Law of Moses has to learn the 10 Commandments from His parents? As an infant, Jesus was just like every other infant. Like each of us, Jesus had to find His way in life, to discover His calling. I wonder how old He was when He became fully self-aware and knew Who He was and what He had to do?
What else do we know about His childhood? For one thing, his family was a bit above average in their commitment to and involvement in their faith community. In the verses following chapter 2, verse 21, we learn that Jesus was circumcised and given His name when He was presented at the temple when He was eight days old. Jesus attended synagogue every week; that was his custom, we are later told. His family participated in the annual pilgrimage to Jerusalem in the spring to celebrate the Passover, commemorating how death had passed over the homes of the Hebrews when it took the eldest sons of all Egyptian families. Not everyone practiced their religion as faithfully as Jesus’ parents did.
We also know that Mary and Joseph had done a very good job of training Jesus in the faith. By age 12, Jesus had learned to question and reason with noted teachers, showing that He was already responsible, self-assured, and quite mature. Twelve-year-old kids are special! Who here is 12? Watch out! Twelve-year-old are capable of some profound thoughts and that is why we invite them to become members of our church through the Confirmation process. Some of their profound thoughts are lost by the time they hit age 14 when they get a case of the sillies due to the obsession with the opposite sex! But a 12-year-old will make you marvel at their wisdom. Once when she was 12, having heard her mother and me fussing about the messy conditions of our house, Hillary profoundly said, “You will have your clean house one day, when John and I are grown up and gone.” All of a sudden, having a cluttered house seemed to be just exactly what I wanted.
In the story of Jesus at the temple, we see the beauty of another 12-year-old in action! As the story begins, the Passover celebration is over, and Mary, Joseph, and their other children (James, Jude, Joses, and others) leave Jerusalem for their home in Nazareth. Jesus was old enough now to travel with friends or cousins, and his family assumed that this was the case. It wasn’t until they stopped for the night that they discovered that Jesus wasn’t with some kinfolks. Where could He be? You don’t suppose that He got left behind like the Home Alone kid? One can only imagine the blaming and self-recriminations and also the anxiety! At sunrise, Mary and Joseph traveled a whole day back to Jerusalem with the younger children to begin their search for Jesus. Perhaps He would be at a cousin’s home; perhaps He would be in the city market area. “You don’t suppose someone would harm him, do you, Joseph?” The Holts always had an emergency meeting place at Carowinds and Disney World or the mall, just in case someone gets separated from the others. But apparently Mary and Joseph hadn’t made such arrangements with Jesus. Retracing the steps of their pilgrimage, they went to the Temple, a very tall building in that time period, a place rich with history and a place that was the faith center of the people. To their utter amazement, that is where they found their 12-year-old son. There He was, just talking with the well-educated religious teachers who considered Jesus something of a prodigy! His wisdom amazed them. He asked questions and gave opinions that astounded them.
Mary’s anxiety and anger can be seen in her accusatory words to Jesus: “How could you do this to us? We’ve been frantic – worried sick!” Since we only have the written account of Jesus’ answer, we don’t know the tone in His voice, but again we can use our imagination and our knowledge of 12-year-olds to help us. Here Jesus is, in the presence of great teachers, perhaps some people that the boy Jesus really looked up to, people that Jesus wanted to respect Him as an almost grown man, and here come His parents, scolding Him like the child that He still was for His lack of concern for them. Sure, He was in a good, safe place, but He had known that he was supposed to join the caravan home several days ago. But He had stayed behind – “just a minute, Mom and Dad. I’ll be right there, in a minute or two.” Isn’t that just like a pre-teen?
Now confronted with His failure to follow directions, Jesus doesn’t apologize, does He? He doesn’t say, “I’m sorry.” He sounds like a young man trying to save face when He replied, “Well, I don’t know why you worried about me. You should have known where I was. You should have known that I would be about my Father’s business.” Boy! If I had spoken to my mother like that when I was 12, my Daddy would have had a thing or two to say to me right then and there!
As we often do, we get to see both the humanity and the divinity that was in Jesus. His answer is fairly sharp, like that of any other typical boy that age. But His insight – the awareness that God is His Father, that God’s claim on His life was the highest claim, and that He was becoming aware of His mission in life – shows His divinity. All in all, His response to His parents was a wake-up call to them. It signified a certain arrival at a place of maturity of character. It was a signal to them that the way that they had been dealing with the little boy Jesus had to be adjusted so that they would be able to guide a young man who was growing in His abilities to take care of Himself and make His own decisions.
I never will forget when our son John showed us that he had come to that place of maturity of character that demanded that Penny and I change the way we would deal with him from then onward! It was at Christmas when John was in middle school. His big sister had given him a wall calendar with adult humor on each page. Penny and I decided to secretly return the calendar for one more age-appropriate, and when John saw that the original calendar had been replaced, he didn’t explode in anger as he would have a few years earlier. Instead he calmly asked for an explanation which we gave him. Then John cut the chains of childhood off of himself when he responded, “You know, if you had asked me about it, I probably would have agreed with you that we should exchange the calendar, but because you didn’t trust me enough to ask my opinion about it, I’m just not sure if I can trust you any longer to help me make decisions.” That is just the kind of answer that Jesus gave to Mary and Joseph that made them realize that their son was no longer just a child. He was becoming a man, and with greater frequency, they would have to allow Jesus to follow God’s direction on His own.
Once He was a child, a beautiful child. Even in His childhood, Jesus assures us that God understands and loves us! Amen.
Arthur H. Holt
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